This post has been put in retrospectively. I made these at the time I thought for a really good friend. I really wanted to make her something to make her birthday a bit special, even with Esmé around I managed to find the time whilst she was asleep to make these.
However, my normal good judge of character was completely wrong in this case, which is unusual for me. Obviously she had an issue with me for quite some time but was putting on a face every time we met (the worst type of friend). I look back now and think what a fool I was. The friendship ended badly and will never be reunited, I was actually the victim in all this as an unprovoked assasination was launched at me. However it was all turned around on me and I was made to look like a nasty person, however I have never had a friendship end before (unlike this person – perhaps that goes to show something).
What upset me the most is this person didn’t even have the balls to speak to me directly, perhaps she was scared, insecure probably. I don’t know, I don’t take fools gladly and don’t need molly coddling, hence the job I have makes me a strong confident person. I can only assume she was intimidated by me.
Its just a shame she didn’t think of the wider effects it would have, especially for my husband. Still great cakes, just not worthy for the person.
What have I learnt from it though…Its not about the quantity of friends you have its the quality.